So we have found out that our two year old is a big brother. We are expecting our second little baby. Yay! I went to a mid wife today. I am hoping to have a home birth this time around. I found out I was pregnant 6 days before my missed you know what (“.”). It showed two very dark lines which means I am pregnant. I couldn’t believe it. I am very excited. I didn’t feel any symptoms until today. Today I’m getting pretty horrible morning sickness. I only had a tiny bit of morning sickness with our first. Hopefully it will pass soon. Does anyone know how to cope with morning sickness while watching an active 2 year old too? He screams “MOMMY!” at the bathroom door or tries to get into something he’s not supposed to.
We just had our home office professionally painted before we found out we were expecting. Looks like that will be a baby room instead. We are both happy about the change of plans. It was a room we weren’t using because we thought that we’d have another baby. After a year and a half of no pregnancy we decided to turn it to an office/guest room. Now we are starting the process of clearing and cleaning it out for baby stuff. I love the thought of making a baby room.
I’m so thankful that God has blessed us with two children. One child is great and two is twice as great!
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HELP! My two year old son is trying to sneak out of the house late at night. He hasn’t successfully escaped so far because he can’t quite get the dead bolt unlocked. Does anyone know how to keep a toddler safe in bed? He is a good climber. He would climb out of his crib so we switched him to a bed just before he turned two. He climbs over baby gates, so those are of no use now. He knows how to turn door knobs. He can barely touch the dead bolt but can’t switch it. He has tried putting keys to the dead bolt, thinking that will open it. I have a monitor in his room so I can hear him getting up. He doesn’t know about the monitor but I think he recently realized that we can hear him because he started sneaking. I was standing in the dining room watching him sneak out of his room. He was looking at his feet and slowly walking over the board on the floor that creaks. When he saw me he gasped and ran back to his bed. His bedroom door rubs on the carpet and requires a push to open. Sometimes I close it because he cannot open it. It seems like a good way to keep him safe inside. It also terrifies him. He will scream and cry and sounds so scared if I close his door. I feel bad about doing it. Should I keep it open and hope he doesn’t try to sneak out? Should I wait til he’s asleep and then close it? I’m pretty sure he will be strong enough to open it very shortly. Then what do I do? I put door knob covers on the doors leading outside. Hopefully that will help. I feel paranoid when I’m going to bed. Nothing would scare me more than to wake up and find my child is gone. Our neighborhood is safe but there’s quite a distance between our house and our neighbor’s. The road is dangerous, there’s wild animals out at night, and he could get lost in the woods. Yet to him, there’s nothing that would make him happier or that gets his attention more than “outside”. He loves to be outside. He can be outside all of the time and be completely happy with that. We play outside everyday for about an hour (more or less depending on my allergies). Even when it’s raining we will play out on the porch. But when it’s time to come inside it’s a sad time for him. He wants control of his own life and sneak outside and play in the middle of the night. To some kids it’s the cookie jar but for my toddler it’s going outside that’s the biggest temptation. I hope that my husband and I can keep him from breaking out and that he quickly learns that it is dangerous to go outside alone.
When I was a little girl, I loved drawing and coloring a picture for my mom. I was pretty proud of one particular picture. A few moments later I saw it in the trash. I was upset. I didn’t reason out in my head what my mom would do with all of the stuff I made her. After seeing one thing after another being thrown away I stopped drawing and thought to myself that coloring and art is for little kids and when you get older you’re not supposed to color.
Now I’m doing art and crafts with my child. I find myself thinking, “what do I do with all of these papers?” Most pages have a couple scribbles and a sticker. Am I going to be a hoarder and keep all of it or throw them away? Surely I can’t keep all of them. Who does that? I have to throw it away and if he’s upset then he will have to get over it, right? I asked my mother-in-love what she did with my husbands pictures when he was little and she actually still has a whole bunch. She put them in a filing drawer. I thought that was a good idea.
A few days later I found a frame at WalMart that can be easily opened and closed. I bought it and am trying it out. Each day I have been putting his new picture in it. His old one I can take out and put in a file folder. I realize that someday I’ll have to go through the file folders and throw away most of the pictures. But I’m saving that day for later and will try to throw pictures away when he can’t see me doing it. I’ll hold onto the special ones.
So for the question to keep or throw away, I have decided to keep, for now anyway.
Play Date
If you’re a homeschool mom you probably know how important it is for your child to have time with friends. Setting up a play date or two every week is a great way to encourage your child’s social development. But what if the play date goes bad? What if you have to keep separating them and putting them into time out? What if they’re just not getting along time after time? If you’re reading this to find the answer I’m afraid I haven’t quite figured this out. My son has recently gone from parallel play (playing beside his friend but in his own world) to socializing and interacting with his friend. This is great because he is making friends, working on communication skills, and learning how to share, but he also has been starting to take things and fight. My son has both been bullied and been the bully. When my son and his friend are in my care and are not getting along I put one or both, depending on the situation, into a time out or separate them with the baby gate. They are usually sad that they’re not able to play with each other and usually change their attitudes pretty quick. However, that doesn’t always work. If it gets out of hand it’s best to call the parent of the friend, if she is not present, and talk with her about the situation. Good communication with the friend’s parent is essential. I think it’s best to work with the other parent and see what helps the children get along unless you feel that there is some major bullying going on that puts a child in danger or if the child is an extremely horrible influence on your child. Keep in mind that it is impossible to find two children that are at the same maturity level. Homeschool moms have gotten a bad rep that they’re too controlling and not letting their child have interaction with other kids, so remember as your child matures to slowly let him choose what to play with his friends, and don’t be overbearing. Make play dates fun by going on an outing to the park or somewhere out of the norm every now and then. Play dates can be a great way for moms to get a break. You can swap every other time whose house the children play in and one mom can watch the kids as the other mom can do some shopping, run errands, have some alone time with her husband, or whatever. Play dates are usually lots of fun and a huge blessing. If you have any play date advice, feel free to comment below. Thanks!
infant sling
There has been a million recalls to baby slings due to infant deaths. Slings can keep the infant in a curled position with the chin to the chest restricting airflow. When this happens the infant is usually unable to breath and will slowly suffocate. According the CPSC there have been 14 reported deaths due to baby slings, 12 of which are under 4 months of age. This is a picture of the most recalled baby swing. It has “Wendy Bellissimo Media, Inc.” on a sewn in label on the inside of the sling strap and has the numbers: 3937500H7 and 3937501H7. If you have this item you can call Infantino at 866-860-1361 and they should offer you an item in exchange.
I personally never had a sling but I thought they seemed pretty cool. I knew some moms that could nurse while the infant was in a sling and their arms would be free to do the dishes, tend to other children, etc. I was always very impressed with this. I could never do anything else while nursing. Also when a baby is in a sling I would think there would be that closeness feeling like when holding the baby. My husband said that he put our son in a sling one time just to see and he said he didn’t like it at all and felt it was very unsafe. So we never got one. We only have one child. I think probably families with several young children would need something like this in order to keep everyone together while going to the store. After finding out about all the infant deaths, however, if I have a bunch more children, I will think of something else and stay away from using a sling.